Have you ever set down and wrote out a list of the qualities you're looking for in a man? You know the list that is your ideal Mr. Right. Have you ever met a man that's come close to the things you have on your list? If so, are you with the guy now or did you find out that the guy isn't really the guy you wanted even though he fit the criteria you've been searching for.
One of the discussions I've been having with a male friend of mine is the fact that we women say we want a good man to do x,y,z, but when we get him we find something else wrong...so the question I ask is do we really know what we want?